Experience love

Don't let your relationship become dull and boring.
Here are some great tips on having the sexiest love affair ever!
1. Go off on an unplanned road trip with your honey....in the middle of the week.
2. Send your honey a bouquet of flowers to his/her work...sign it "from your secret admirer".
3. Mail your honey a naughty letter to their work or slip it in his/her car before going to work.
4. Get an erotic book and read it together late one night. Then if you both want to act out your favorite scenes.
5. Create your own fun and naughty bed games.
6. Act out his/her's greatest fantasy with them. Role play. Be the boss and have her be your secretary.
7. Go skinning dipping together late one night.
8. Hold each other and watch your partner fall asleep.
9. Take baths together. Don't forget to include bath salts, rose petals, candles, & romantic music.
10. Write "I love you" on his/her car's window with your lipstick.
11. Go on moonlit walks at the beach on a clear night.
12. Drive to the desert, park at a place where you two can be alone and just stare at the stars. Hold and kiss each other.
13. Pack a picnic lunch and head out to the beach or park with your loved one.
14. Take your honey to a place that he/she has been wanting to go to for a long time.
15. Hold his/her hands.
16. Play a sport together, especially one that has a lot of body contact, such as basketball.
17. Create your own lingerie show for him.
18. Take sexy photographs of yourself and present it to him/her as a gift for your anniversary, birthday, or just because.
19. Make a sexy tape for him/her. Use your sexiest voice to say naughty things to him/her. Place the tape in his/her car. This should get him/her to come back home ASAP.
20. If you're going on a business trip, bring your honey with you.
21. Meet each other at a hotel and pretend that you just barely met and you're both there for an exciting rendezvous.
22. Pour wine or champagne on his/her body and eagerly taste it.
23. For the men: Act like you're a hot model getting ready to do a photo shoot. Oil down your body and pose for your honey.
24. For the women: Act like you're a hot supermodel getting ready to do a photo shoot. Put on make-up, dress sexy and pose for your honey.
25. Tell him/her just how much you love them, every hour.
26. Write down the best things that you love about him/her. Write each of them on a separate paper and leave the compliments all over the house, car, work, bathroom, etc., where he/she can find it easily.
27. Lay in bed together and just talk to each other.
28. Place a rose in the places that you know he/she will find it.
29. Create a romantic scavenger hunt and let yourself be the prize in the end!
30. Make your own naughty video.
31. Always stop your honey and give him/her a kiss each time you see them.
32. Let your honey know just how beautiful or handsome she/he is.
33. Kiss him/her passionately in public, it could be while you're both walking to your car, walking down the sidewalk, in the subways, in the mall, anywhere. Make his/her heart pound.
34. Say romantic things to your honey while you're out in public.
35. For women: When you're out at dinner or on a date with your honey, whisper in his ear that you don't have any panties on. That will make you're guy go crazy the whole night.
36. Take long and hot showers together.
37. Make a nice romantic dinner for him/her, after his/her's hard day at work. He/she will truly appreciate it.
38. After a nice bath, give your honey a nice sensual body massage.
39. Write him/her a steamy love letter.
40. Tell each other your most romantic or steamiest fantasy.

1. Be impeccably groomed. Better to come off as being too clean than as a slob!

2. Be considerate and polite

3. Make advance bookings and plan your route early. It won't make a good impression on your date if you both ended up late for dinner because there was a huge jam on the CTE.

4. This is really simple, but make sure you have enough credit on your credit card!! Or at least make sure you have enough cash to pay for dinner. And ladies can politely enquiry if they should foot half.

5. One way to avoid any awkardness about who's paying for what is to go to a food court. That way, you pay for your own food, and she pays for hers. But it'll be nice for the guy to pay for her drink. Thsi is normally ok if you're still young, in school or just starting work. If you've been working a few years, you should probably bring your date soemwhere more expensive!

6. When your date is talking, look into her eyes and listen carefully. Wait for her to finish speaking, and nod often. This is a sure fire way to make her feel that you are truly listening to her. Often times, w edon't look into our partners eyes enough.

7. Have a packet of tissue handy. Espcially after a meal or when you date needs to go to the restroom.

8. Suggest going for coffee and a chocolate dessert to sweeten the evening.

9. Send your date home, unless she insists you don't have to.

10. Follow up on the date by calling her the next day just to talk. If possible, set a date for the following weekend.

Many people think they can't write love letters, that they suck at poetry, that they're not Shakespeare....but writing love notes is actually really easy...and fun! It takes some imagination and feeling, but once you have a winning formula, you just apply it over and over again.

Here are some romantic tips:

1. Use those Post-It notes from 3M, they're great! And you can draw stick figures and smilies on them. Use them to say stuff like...""I miss you so much, hurry back", or "I feel so sad when you're not around. " See, easy, isn't it? Just one or two lines, you don't have to write a whole sonnet!

2. Food, this is the fun part! If you have time, go to the supermarket and buy some cake icing, the type that comes in a tube with the spout so you can write words with. Buy some large cookies, and draw little hearts on them. Total time will be less than half an hour, and you can pick up the cookies and icing next time you're shopping. Now, put the cookies in a nice tupperware and you can both share these "love" cookies together!

3. Use some whiteboard markers, get then in a variety of colours, and you can make your own balloon notes with them! Blow up some balloons and write words like Love, Honey, Hugs, and whatever else you want to write on them. To make it more fun, you can put small candy bars in some of the balloons and then scatter the balloons all over her house.

4. I saw this in a movie the other day, and I thought it was a great idea! Draw little faces on eggs in the fridge with a marker. Or to expand on that idea, you can spell out the words I Love You on the eggs, so every morning, she'll remember it!

5. You know those old Christmas cards that have been piling up the past few years? Put them to use! Cut out the relevant pictures, get some wire and thread and you can make a mobile to hang from the ceiling with. Of course, behind every picture you would scribble something romantic so she'll keep it!

6. Get an old beer bottle or soft drink bottle. Write a short love note on a nice piece of paper. Something like, "Without you, I would be a lonely island. I Love you" Then use a lighter and burn the edges of the paper so it looks like an old parchement. Roll it up and tie it with a ribbon, or at least a rubber band. Get a needle and poke some thread through the paper, insert the paper into the bottle with the string hanging out, so she can pull the paper out. Viola, your letter in a bottle is ready! Just for fun, try putting it into the fridge and see when she notices it!

I've given you a head start on getting your imagination going, the sky is the limit when it comes to expressing your love! If you have any ideas that have worked in the past, so let us know by writing in to us!

Angel Kisses: Put your eyelashes on your lover's cheek and while batting your eyes rapidly, slowly move your eyes over to their lips. Finish up with a sweet lips-to-lips kiss.

Eskimo Kiss: Lean over and rub noses while lying in bed; it brings a smile to both of your faces.

Lips Only Kisses: Softly kiss your honey's top lip, then bottom lip, then softly and slowly kiss fully on both lips. It's beautiful and sensual.

Afterglow Kiss: The most exquisite kiss(es) can be after lovemaking when your love takes your face in their hands, softly kisses both your eyes, the tip of your nose, then a long, loving kiss on your lips—melts any heart.

Skimmer Kiss: Softly and slowly run the tip of your tongue along your lover's lips almost like you are lightly licking them. Very sensual.

Neck Kiss: Nibble the ear, kiss the earlobe. Tease with your lips. Pull away. Lightly kiss the mouth. Pull away. Then press harder...kiss more passionately. Then let your tongue touch theirs... You make your own from there.

Teaser Kiss: Start with a kiss on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to your love's hand, kiss their hand, then come back up their arm, to their face and then lightly kiss their lips till they want a passionate kiss.

Lip Savor: Gently kiss your lover's top or bottom lip and then lick it before taking in the entire lip.

Strawberry Kiss: Place a strawberry in your mouth and go to kiss your unknowing partner. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and feed part of it to your partner while you kiss.

Gentle Kiss: Rub your finger across their lips and look up at them and tell them that you love them. Then kiss gently, hardly touching lips. And if you want to show them how passionate you can get, trace their lips with your tongue

Baby Kisses: Are just little, light kisses. Trade these kisses all over face, ears and neck, it's really cute.

Sensual Kiss: Start by hugging your love very gently, then look in their eyes and whisper that you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs, but do not actually make the kissing sensation. Caress their lips with yours, and then move your lips in a circular motion on their lips. Then when they least expect it, give them a sweet but honest kiss. This kiss would really put them in the mood for romance!

Eye Kisses: Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go. Then slowly kiss up towards your partners eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.

Toe Kiss: Nibble on your lover's toes and plant little kisses ever upwards, ever upwards...

Cheek Kiss: Gently brush your cheek against your partner's cheek. Then slowly brush your partner's lips with your tongue a few times in a provocative, teasing manner.

3 Kisses In 1: First, start out with butterfly kisses (the ones where you brush your eyelashes next to each other's). Then, move down to Eskimo kisses (rubbing noses). Finally, do a real kiss. Touch your lips to their lips, gently at first, then gradually kiss more passionately.

Outline Kiss: Have your partner close his mouth so their lips are naturally together. Then outline their lips with your tongue before you begin the kiss.

Finger Kisses: Gently nibble, kiss and suck on your mate’s fingers. This can be very seductive.

Hostage Kiss: Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape, tell them, "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!

Rose Petal Kiss: To be used in conjunction with nibbles on the neck and/or other body parts. Make a tiny "o" with your lips, and place them against you love’s skin and suck softly. Then lifting your lips only a little, move over a little bit and repeat. The sensations can vary from being ticklish to erotic, depending on the area and intensity.

Red Light Kiss: When you and your honey are stopped at a red light waiting for it to turn green, lean over and kiss each other

The Lost Kiss: Look around your boyfriends/girlfriend's room or house looking under things and appearing like you're searching for something. When asked what you're looking for, reply, "I've been looking all day for a kiss but I can't find it anywhere. Oh wait, I found it." Then kiss your partner quickly.

Password Kiss: Make an agreement that every time you ask other a questions today you have to give a password before you get an answer—a little, delicate kiss on the lips.

Wake Up Kiss: Before your partner awakes, lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!

Strawberry Kiss: What's the best kiss of all? The flavored kind! And what's the best summer flavor? Strawberry! Slap on some strawberry lip gloss (ladies) and kiss your guy on the lips. (No tongue!) Then you both lick your lips and repeat.

Make Up Kisses: At the end of a hard day sit down with your partner and ask them how their day went. Silently keep track of all the bad things that happened during their day. When they finish, give them a kiss for each misfortune. Explain that you are making up for all those problems.

Post-It Kiss: Make a post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the last note over your lips with the words, "Lift for a kiss." on it.

Whisper Kisses: Gently give little kisses to your love's ears while whispering romantic thoughts to them.

Machine Gun Kiss: As quickly as possible, kiss your love as many times as you can in row, preferably in different spots on their face.

Neck Kiss: Surprise your love by going behind them and moving their hair out of the way. Then once their neck is exposed, passionately kiss it and softly blow on the nape.

French Palate-Smoocher: Lightly tickle the roof (palate) of your mate's mouth with your tongue to send shivers down their spine.

Silly Kisses: Both partners open and close their mouths quickly—almost like when you're trying to get a toddler to eat—and then pretend you're eating. Do that and get really close so your lips are just barely touching.

Nibble Kiss: Nibble first on one lip then the other. Take turns doing this to each other then finish off with a long tender kiss.

Feather Kisses: When your love is lying on the sofa, lean over and plant the lightest kisses possible over their entire forehead and face. Then, without uttering a word, walk away and resume what you were doing.

Body Kiss: While your mate is lying down watching T.V., slip over to him and start running your tongue up his arm. When you reach his lips, give him a full passionate kiss. WOW!

Lead Up Kiss: Do not kiss your love all day until the "big" kiss. Throughout the day, leave Hershey's kisses in romantic places like on top of your love's pillow, or on their plate, next to their coffee cup—anywhere they will know it's for them. Later in the day, leave notes with kissing poems or quotes instead of the Hershey's kisses. Later, leave a love letter describing how you'd like to kiss them. Once you feel they've had enough teasing, spend 20 minutes or so rewarding them with wonderful, passionate kisses!

Video Kisses: Great for long distance lovers. Set up a web cam, yours or a friend’s, blow tons of kisses to your love and mail it to them as a surprise!

Travel Kisses: While driving on a long trip, make the most of rest stops by going behind a trees and stealing a quick, yet romantic, kiss from your lover. Caution: Trip is bound to take longer than usual, as you will want to stop at every rest stop on the route!

Teaser Kiss II: When you next see your love, kiss them everywhere you possibly can except their lips. Pretend to almost kiss their lips and instead kiss somewhere else. When you feel your partner has had enough tormenting give them a passionate kiss on the lips!

Finger Tease Kiss: Softly run your fingers across your mate's lips to lure them in to kissing you. But before you kiss, pull away and then go in for the kiss, then pull away again, tease them a little!

Favorite Flavor Kiss: Buy a few different flavored lip glosses. Kiss your honey with each flavor on your lips and have him vote for his favorite.

Email Kiss: With your sound recorder program, record yourself blowing a kiss. Save it as .wav file. Send your boyfriend an email love letter with the kiss attached!

Open Eyes Kiss: For a change of pace, open your eyes and look at each other while kissing. Just seeing the emotion and love in their eyes is enough to make anyone weak at the knees!

Ice Kiss: For a sensual moment, put a piece of ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Then, go behind them and kiss them on the neck, letting the ice softly touch their skin while you're kissing them.

Drive-by Kissing: Walk by your partner when they are totally not expecting it and plant a hearty kiss right on their lips. Then tell them they were a victim of a drive-by kissing!!

Comforting Kiss: Although all those passionate, make-your-heart-beat-so-fast-you-think-it's-going-to-explode, take-your-breath-away kisses are wonderful, sometimes a soft, heartfelt kiss on the cheek when the one you love is upset can be just what they need. It shows you care, simply, without words.

Goodbye Kiss: A goodbye kiss is one of those kisses that you don't want to ever end. You just keep your lips pressed together and hope that the dream won't end with a wake up call of reality. A goodbye kiss is extra special when you know that you won't get to feel your love's lips for a long time.

Computer Kisses: For fun, record yourself making a variety of kisses on your computer's sound recorder. Then either email them to your love or leave a note somewhere with instructions to press play on the computer.

Back Kisses: Next time you’re snuggling with your love, snuggle up behind them and proceed to cover their back with tiny little kisses. It’s guaranteed to give you a great response!

Take Away Kisses: When you know you won't be seeing your love for a while, apply a pretty color lipstick and kiss a piece of scented paper several times. Slip the paper in your love's pocket without him knowing, and just as you are about to part, tell him to check his pocket after he leaves. Click here for benefits of kissing.

Tell your mate how glad you are that he/she is a part of your life and how lucky I am to have him/her.

· Tell your mate that I love him just the way he/she is and that I wouldn’t trade him/her for any other man/woman in the world.

· Compliment your spouse often for his/her physical attributes (anything you find sexy).

· Compliment your spouse for the things he/she does (from playing with the children, to fixing the car)

Leave love notes for your spouse. Hide them in a lunch, purse, briefcase or around the house to surprise them.

· Write your spouse an old-fashioned love letter, love poem or write out the words to “your song”. Frame it and surprise your spouse with it.

· Take a vacation alone together at least once a year without the kids and go on mini weekend get-aways at least every few months if possible.

· Plan a weekly date night with your spouse and stick to it. If you can’t afford to go out to a fancy restaurant, find activities that are low budget, such as a free outdoor concert series and take along a romantic picnic lunch/dinner.

· Create a memory – do something different of out of character. For example: Meet your spouse at the door with a raincoat on and nothing on underneath or surprise your spouse by renting a hotel room close to his/her work and call them to have a romantic lunch interlude.

· Give into your spouse’s sexual advances, especially when you don’t feel like it and let them know how much you love them.

· Wear, use or display a gift item that your spouse has given you even if you aren’t thrilled with it. It will make them feel good.

· Surprise your spouse with a candle-lit dinner and flowers. Put on some romantic music and see where the night takes you.

· Plan a “theme dinner” for your loved one. Some examples that Ellen Kriedman gives in her book “Light His Fire”, are: A Hawaiian Haitus; A Night in Spain; A Morroccan Feast; A Venice Vacation; A Greek Picnic; A Japanese Party; An African Safari, etc. Make sure that you attend to every detail from type of food, music and costumes…it can really spice things up.

So you have a Hot Date, and you don’t have a clue as to where to take your date. Should you take her/him to a very expensive, exclusive restaurant? How about the hottest dance spot in town? Maybe just a quiet evening at home with a bottle of wine, flowers and a romantic movie? Well before you settle in to some of those more traditional type dates check out our hot suggestions for an unforgettable day!

• Take her camping with a twist. Bring wine, flowers and make her dinner served by the fireside with romantic music playing.
• Live in an apartment building with access to the roof? Try checking with your landlord and setting up a romantic dinner by candlelight maybe even include a violinist.
• Memorize a romantic poem that depicts your love and recite it to her/him.
• Take her/him on a romantic gondola boat ride.
• Hire a horse drawn carriage.
• Have dinner in the park with dancing and a tape of songs that are special to the both of you.
• Take a hot air balloon ride.
• Consider a spur of the moment airplane ride over your city at night.
• Live near an island like Catalina or the Channel Islands? Spend the day at the shore snorkeling, bicycle riding or try taking a paddle boat out.
• Attend a formal ball complete with tails and top hat. Want to really wow her? Go ahead and hire that horse drawn carriage
• Broke? Try buying a heart shaped baking pan at your local grocery store and baking a chocolate chip cookie. Can’t bake? Buy any frozen cookie dough and thaw it a bit until you can spread it out in the cookie pan. Buy a tube of icing and write your own sentiment on it. Then fill a bathtub with lots of bubbles. Add some rose petals, music and a less expensive bottle of wine or sparkling apple cider. Cut the cookie into pieces like you would a cake and serve on cute plastic valentines plates you can get from the market or a party supply store.
• Consider taking a sports lesson together. One neither of you has tried. Here are a few good ones: Surfing, ice skating, golfing, scuba diving, or paragliding.
• Go to a bead shop and buy a few pretty glass beads with a few initial beads to add to the middle that spell out her name or “I love you.” String them together and making a bracelet, anklet or necklace. Click here for more Romantic Gift Ideas.
• Try a horseback ride on the beach complete with champagne and watch the sun go down together.
• Find a concert in the park where you can pack some food, sit on blankets and gaze at the stars together.
• Take an overnight trip by train.
• Simply tell her all the reasons why you can’t live without her. Read our Love Quotes and Poems to get inspired.
• Show her/him how much you care by taking the time to create a homemade meal he or she won’t soon forget.

Lust is self-gratification.
Lust can be obsessive.
Lust is usually tied to sexual gratification.
Lust is selfish.
Lust doesn’t consider the other persons wants and needs.
Lust doesn’t care about how the other person’s day went.
When someone’s in lust they aren’t interested in meeting family or friends.
Lust is wanting something to the point that you don’t care who gets hurt.
Lust manipulates, destroys and controls.
Lust often involves raging.
People who lusts may think they are in love, but the fire burns out quickly when they get the person or thing they lust for.
Lust doesn’t last, but love can.

A strong positive emotion of regard and affection.
Any object of warm affection or devotion.
Having a great affection or liking for.
A deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction.
To be enamored with.